Do you have those days when you just feel tired and all alone? Those days when you feel broken and frustrated because of the unanswered questions in your mind about your divorce. I have. It is all apart of the divorce recovery process.
Brokenness is a feeling that everyone dreads to feel. We ask ourselves, why did this happen to me? Do I deserve to be broken?
The answer is that brokenness happens to all of us at some point in our lives. It’s a universal feeling that allows us to empathize with others and understand their pain. Brokenness also allows us to grow as individuals and become stronger in Christ.
Like we are shown in many examples throughout the Bible, if we are going to step into a more Christ-like version of ourselves we have to strip away what is not serving the Kingdom to make room for what God really has for you.
So, it is good to pause for a moment to let yourself take in what God is doing in this moment of pain. Just like all your past pain and challenges God has carried you through them and you come out stronger and closer to Him on the other side. As easy as it is to focus on the pain it is comforting to know that pain is a way to true understanding and healing.
Using Our Challenges In Divorce Recovery
Our trials serve a purpose – they help us to become more reliant on God. As mortal people, we are limited in what we can do on our own. But when we rely on God, we tap into a power that knows no bounds.
As it says in Isaiah 41:10, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
You Are Not Alone In Your Divorce Recovery
It’s easy to feel like we’re alone after a divorce and that nobody understands what we’re going through. But the truth is that we’re never alone. God has promised us His strength, and He will never give us a trial that we’re unable to handle.
Endure the process and let it mold you. But don’t do it alone.
I understand what you’re going through and want to help you get through this season of your life. My divorce recovery program offers hope and healing for those who are hurting.
But before you look at my recovery program I encourage you to download my free healing journal. This will help you start down the right path towards healing. When moving forward from something like divorce it isn’t about making a change all at once overnight. Despite what others around you might say by telling you to let it go and move on.
It just isn’t that simple. There are alot of emotions and memories that have brought you to this point you are at now.
So, let’s just dip the toe in the water and start welcoming the idea that you will have a beautiful life past this.